Japanese woman do not have enough sex

[martinz]

I think the problem is Japanese men. No one wants to have sex with them. No one. Maybe they need to take a break from jerking off to bloody deflowerings, rape, crying rape, more rape, tentacle rape, granny panties, robots, shemales, robotic shemales programmed for rape (and crying), 12 year olds, urination, and shiatting dicknipples. (If you don't know what I'm talking about with the last one, just be grateful, very grateful, and don't GIS whatever you do). Somehow, no matter how quiet they are, their sexuality has just evolved into something women don't relate to at all.

[kenoodo]

What is the main point of this?

That is the style of their life, isn't it? No matter how unnormal you take.

[ruyss]

I can't imagine that all Japanese men are into the things you describe. I find myself lucky that I haven't seen any of the things you mention (and I'm not planning om checking them out either ). But to assume that all Japanese men are into that kind of things is a bit harsh don't you think?

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure that there are people that actually watch a lot of those things, but it just seems a bit over the top that the problem lies with men only.
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[coralvalley]

I cannot speak about the Japanese culture, but I would guess that perhaps part of the reason that so many marriage are getting to the point where the couples are no longer invested in having any kind of sexual relationships with one another simply stems from the fact that their focus is on other aspects of their life together. It appears that the couples have evolved past that honeymoon phase that most relationships have when they are first starting out where they are fueled by attraction and desire to one another.

Over time it seems that people move beyond the physical aspect of the relationship and focus on other things such as family and being able to support the family that you have in a world where things are not as economically secure as they may have been a while ago. Financial pressures play a big key in relationships having a strain when it comes to physical closeness with one another. If someone is working long hours and trying to be able to make ends meet, the stress and the added pressures can distract from that side of a romantic relationship between husband and wife. That is a problem that is common in various places around the world not only in Japan. Perhaps when the couples reach an age when they are secure in their finances and their family has grown up and are able to stand on their own, that pressure and stress will leave and be replaced with a renewed passion in one another. You never know.

As for the part about all Japanese men being into the darker, more taboo side of sexuality, I would imagine that not every Japanese man is like that. Granted I know there are a lot of strange things out there that I would just as soon pretend that I have never heard of, but I would think that there would be some people out there who are not necessarily into the darker, more defiant side of things. That is just too easy of an answer considering that the woman in the article seemed to be focused more on her husband providing for their family. Just a thought although I am sure that some would undoubtedly fit into that category that you are speaking about as well.

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[ClickFanatic]

The Japanese economy is known for its highly motivated labour force.
I don't know whether this is motivation out of necessity or out of happiness, but fact is that the Japanese work a lot.

I think it is common knowledge that an uneven balance between work and leisure is bad for one's social life. This could explain the sexless trend explained by your article, which in turn explains the low birth-rate in Japan.

I don't think it has much to do with the sick pornography you described.
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[SE13]

Good grief! I appear to be a Japanese woman!

Sillyness aside, if you actually google (other search engines are available) porn, I'll wager quite a number feature Japanese ladies, and all seem quite prepared to pose doing almost anything!

I am quite sure it isn't indicitive of the culture, much as most British ladies don't walk around Trafalgar Square in London draped only in a Union Flag!
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[Pie32]

You can find working girls in any culture, but I don't think that's an accurate cross-section of females for that culture.
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[spock]

I'mnot sure if it's the men's fault. If it's a problem that occurs quite often I guess it's a problem with the culture of the country.
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[Luth]

This article is rather pointless really, truth is most people in japan do not treat sex the same way they do here in the States. Most people in Japan believe it is ok to have sex with someone other then your spouse, meaning that is is ok for married mean and women to have sex with other people so long as it is not out of Love, instead it either has to be based on financial agreements or one time meetings. However don't be fooled it doesn't mean people just go out and find someone, most of the time they use websites to meet and the women in the arrangements tend to be very careful when setting up meetings, by talking with the men on the phone and via email for a few days before agreeing to the meeting. Studies in Japan have shown this way of thinking common with somewhere around 70% of japans population. The thing you will find funny about this is that it is more so with the older generations then the younger ones, this is mainly do to the fact that it was only recently that women were treated as equals in Japanese society. And most marriages that took place 20 or 30 years ago in Japan were more about social business then love. By social business I mean that many marriages that took place back then were arranged by families in order to improve financial or social standings. It wasn't until recently that women were treated equal to man and even more recent that arranged weddings were uncommon (yet still practiced amongst powerful families). Since the recent changes the younger generations have slowly started to adopt western beliefs on monogamy.

If you are curious how I know all of this, I love Japanese culture I have taken 2 trips there one lasted 9 weeks (and was when I met my Japanese wife) and the second was a 3 month stay so that I could get to know my wives family after we got married in the states (which didn't sit well with her family lol and we were forced to have a Japanese ceremony while we were there lol) and that's where I learned the most about Japanese culture.

[LP-Shirl]

Okay, I am going to say this one time. Let's keep this topic on a mature level here and it will be fine. I would also like to comment that I googled the term mentioned in the first post and I am utterly shocked that such a thing turns people on.

Anyway, to comment on the main subject here, working hours and stress can definitely lead to a decrease in sex drive for both men and women. I know different cultures are accustomed to different lifestyles but overall the same factors and contribute and/or deteriorate a relationship.
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